Who Is Gisele Bündchen's Boyfriend Joaquim Valente? All About the Fitness Instructor

Gisele Bündchen and Joaquim Valente welcomed their first baby together over two years after the supermodel divorced Tom Brady. Read on for everything you need to know about the fitness instructor.

By Leah Degrazia, Brahmjot Kaur Oct 29, 2024 12:24 AM
| Updated Feb 05, 2025 7:11 PM
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Gisele Bündchen and Joaquim Valente are ready to be model parents.

After all, the Victoria’s Secret supermodel just welcomed her first baby with the fitness instructor, TMZ reports

But Joaquim became a part of Gisele’s life far before the pregnancy was announced in October. The jiu-jitsu instructor provided lessons to the model—who shares kids Benjamin Reid, 14, and daughter Vivian Lake, 12, as well as stepson Jack Edward Thomas, 17, with ex-husband Tom Brady—as early as 2022.

Although Joaquim and Gisele—who divorced the NFL player in 2022 after 13 years of marriage—have kept their relationship private, the mom of three did share a glimpse into their meet cute.  

"Initially, I wasn't even considering it for myself," she told Dust magazine in 2022. "But when I brought Ben to the first class and started talking to Joaquim, I realized that it was much more than self-defense."

Since then, Gisele has been loving the power she’s gained from the sessions. In fact, she shared a video of her jiu-jitsu lesson with Joaquim while reflecting on committing to the activity.

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"I feel stronger, more confident and empowered since I started practicing self-defense," the 44-year-old captioned her Instagram at the time. "I feel it’s an important skill for all, but especially for us women." 

Thanking Joaquim and his two brothers—who together founded the self-defense academy, Valente Brothers—for "being awesome teachers and for making training so much fun," Gisele added, "I am looking forward to keep improving. Let’s go!"

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But while the academy founder may have been showing her some moves in the gym since early 2022, it wasn't until November of that year that the pair first sparked romance rumors, when they were spotted vacationing together in Costa Rica along with Ben and Vivian. They reportedly began officially dating in June 2023. 

Since then, Gisele has opted to keep their romance mostly out of the public eye, but she has provided some insight into their blended family life. In September, she shared an adorable photo of Joaquim paddleboarding with her son alongside the caption, "Best of Summer." 

To learn more about Joaquim as they prepare to welcome their new addition, read on...

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Who is Gisele Bündchen's boyfriend Joaquim Valente?

Joaquim is a self-defense and jiu-jitsu instructor who founded the Miami-based self-defense academy, Valente Brothers, with his two siblings after moving to the United States from Rio De Janeiro, Brazil. The 35-year-old—who is also trained in boxing and judo—has been practicing jiu-jitsu since he was 2 years old and received his black belt and Professors' Diploma from Grandmaster Hélio Gracie in 2007, according to the Valente Brothers website

When did Gisele Bündchen start dating Joaquim Valente? 

Gisele—who also hails from Brazil—was first romantically linked to Joaquim in November 2022, when the pair were spotted on vacation together in Costa Rica one month after she finalized her divorce from ex-husband Tom Brady. However, the couple reportedly began officially dating in June 2023.

How did Gisele Bündchen and her boyfriend Joaquim Valente meet? 

Gisele first met Joaquim through her son, Benjamin Brady, who had enrolled in one of his jiu-jitsu classes. Shortly after, Gisele shared that the fitness instructor convinced her to join a session as well. 

"Initially, I wasn't even considering it for myself," she told Dust magazine in 2022. "But when I brought Ben to the first class and started talking to Joaquim, I realized that it was much more than self defense." 

And while the couple didn't start dating until months later, Gisele shared that she was grateful for Joaquim and his training program long before that. 

"I feel stronger, more confidence and empowered since I started practicing self-defense," she wrote in a February 2022 Instagram. "I feel it’s an important skill for all, but specially for us women."

Thanking Joaquim and his brothers for "being awesome teachers and for making training so much fun," Gisele added, "I am looking forward to keep improving."

Who did Gisele Bündchen date before Joaquim Valente? 

Prior to dating Joaquim, Gisele was married to Tom Brady, who she met through mutual friends in 2006 before tying the knot three years later. The couple—who share son Benjamin, 14, and daughter Vivian Brady, 11, as well as stepson Jack Brady, 16—finalized their divorce in October 2022 following 13 years of marriage. 

What has Gisele Bündchen said about dating Joaquim Valente? 

While Gisele has kept her romance with Joaquim mostly out of the public eye, she previously shared how glad she is to have him—and his brothers Pedro and Gui—in her life. 

“I’m so grateful to know all of them,” she told Vanity Fair in 2023, “because not only have they helped me and helped my kids, but they have become great friends, and Joaquim especially.”

And that's not the only insight she provided into their relationship. She also shared why Joaquim is such a great person to have around her kids. 

“He’s our teacher and, most importantly, he’s a person that I admire and that I trust," Gisele continued. "It’s so good to have that kind of energy, to have my kids around that type of energy."

Keep reading for a glimpse of Gisele's life with her kids....

Music to Her Ears

Gisele Bündchen's life as a mom includes plenty of kisses from son Benjamin and daughter Vivian, who she shares with ex Tom Brady.

Sun's Out

The trio got silly during a beach vacation when Vivian was just a baby.

All Smiles

Gisele and her kids shared a laugh in this sweet family photo.

Like Mother, Like Daughter

Vivian definitely inherited her mama's love of yoga.

Football Star

Benjamin, who is following in his dad's football footsteps, received a kiss from his mom after a game.

Snuggle Season

There's nothing more heartwarming than a mother-daughter snuggle.

Birthday Hugs

"Happy birthday to this sweet peanut," Gisele wrote in a 2024 birthday tribute to her bonus child Jack, whom Tom shares with ex Bridget Moynahan. "Who turned into a beautiful, kind and incredible young man. We are so lucky to have you in our lives! Love you so much."

All Grown Up

Gisele showed how her son was growing up fast with this photo of the two back-to-back.

Chasing Waterfalls

Gisele and Vivian shared a cute moment during a 2023 vacation to Brazil.

Sleepover With Mom

The supermodel got a sweet wake-up call from her daughter.

Yoga Buddies

Gisele and Benjamin practiced yoga by the beach.

The Sweetest Thing

A mother's kiss is sweeter than a popsicle. 

Kisses

Gisele snuck in a kiss after her son gave her a piece of his artwork as a gift.

My Little Pony

Gisele and Benjamin took the horses for a walk down the trail.

Soccer Mom

Gisele got into the spirit by cheering on her favorite team and holding onto daughter Vivian.

 

Lake Viewing

Gisele showed her daughter the beauty of nature.

Beach Babes

Gisele and the kids enjoyed a nice day by the beach.

Story Time

Benjamin appeared engrossed as his mother read him a story.

 

Recess

The whole family let loose together and had fun playing.

Sunset Session

Benjamin showed his enthusiasm for yoga as he hung with his mom on the beach at sunset.

Game Night

Gisele and the kids made sure to support their dad during his big football game.

Reaching for the Sky

Vivian tried to imitate her mother's every move during a yoga session.

Mommy & Me

Gisele lifted her little one up into the air during a carefree beach day.

Namaste

Gisele shared her love of a healthy lifestyle by leading Vivian in an outdoor yoga session.

Baby Yoga

Gisele proved she loves doing everything with her kids, even involving them in her fitness routine.

Finding Nirvana

Vivian attempted her best yoga pose next to her mother.

Multitasking Mama

Gisele makes it look so easy being a mom.

Stylish Duo

Gisele and Benjamin make a stylish duo with her chic shades and his cool hat in this photo.

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