Jessica Alba Compared Cash Warren Marriage to Being “Roommates” Before Breakup

Jessica Alba gave a candid look into her marriage to Cash Warren—including how they’d become more like roommates—less than a year before their separation.

By Hayley Santaflorentina Jan 09, 2025 2:30 PM
| Updated Jan 09, 2025 6:36 PM
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Watch: Jessica Alba Compared Marriage to Cash Warren as “Roommates” Before Breakup

Jessica Alba was honest about the realities of marriage ahead of her breakup with Cash Warren.

Following the news that the pair are separated with a divorce on the horizon, an interview the Honey actress gave in 2024 has recirculated, in which she gave a candid look into where her marriage stood.

“I would say it’s all rosy for two-and-a-half years,” Jessica told podcast host Katherine Schwarzenegger. “But then after that you become roommates. You're just going through the motions, the responsibilities. It's a lot of like checking the boxes.”

She also gave an honest answer as to how being parents to three kids—daughters Honor, 16, Haven, 13, as well as son Hayes, 7—while managing her professional career and business often led to her and Cash’s relationship becoming a lower priority.

“I think that he probably gets the short end of the stick,” she reflected, before amending, “I would say we‚ it's not even him, I would say it's us, right? Because when I'm seeing him and spending time with him, and we're like really like enjoying each other, it's an us thing. And it feeds me as well.”

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She added, “We used to do every Wednesday we're going to do date night, or every week we're gonna set aside a time—we're gonna at least do date night, right? We won't have our phones and we'll just like talk. But then that stopped because whatever, and so we're just not consistent.”

The 43-year-old also stressed the importance of communication, and not letting things fester before they explode—though she joked that after 17 years together, they’d let that happen, too.

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“We have, obviously, the friendship, the comfort of like, ‘You're not going anywhere,’” Jessica said of her relationship with Cash. “And so sometimes you don't treat those people the best. You don't consider their feelings in the way that that you would consider other people's feelings. So that is something that I think is a constant one to work on.”

This is not the only inside look into their relationship Jessica and Cash shared since tying the knot in 2008, having met on the set of Fantastic Four in 2004.

For his part, Cash had previously spoken to the depth of their bond.

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"We can talk about anything,” he said during a joint sit-down with Jessica during a 2021 appearance on the Works for Us podcast. “We can sit down, we can make each other laugh, we can piss each other off—just that best friend friendship, that trust."

And Jessica, too, spoke to the longevity of their relationship.

"We're in it,” the Honest Company founder said. “We both committed to being in it. The second you can choose to be in it, is when you're like, 'Hmm, I don't know, I can probably choose to not do this anymore.' The second that happens, that's when it gets weird."

For more on the pair’s decades-long romance, keep reading.

Co-Parenting

Two months after Jessica Alba and Cash Warren filed for divorce, they proved they're still family by coming together to celebrate Easter with their daughters Honor and Haven and son Hayes in April 2025.

Game Time & Family Time

This mother-son outing was a slam dunk.

"Date night with Hayesie," the actress wrote on Instagram in April 2025. "Epic first @lakers game w my lil man."

Super Bowl 2025

A few days after Jessica and Cash filed for divorce in February 2025, she and her daughters took in the Super Bowl in New Orleans.

Universal Studios

About two weeks before Jessica publicly announced her split from Cash, the pair went to Universal Studios to celebrate the birthday of their son Hayes, who was born on New Year's Eve 2017.

"The best day at #UniversalStudios celebrating our 7 year old, Hayes!" she wrote on Instagram Jan. 3, 2025. "Thank you for having us, @unistudios."


Merry Christmas 2024

The Honey star posted a photo from her family's Christmas celebrations to Instagram Dec. 26, 2025. She and Cash separated the next day, according to the date listed in her divorce filing. 

Raiding Mom's Closet

The pair attended a screening of Jessica's film Trigger Warning with their daughters in June 2024.

"Honor wore my @prada dress from the 2007 premier of Valentine's Day in London & Havie wore my @dolcegabbana dress from Comicon for Good Luck Chuck in 2010," The Honeset Company founder wrote on Instagram. "I loooove seeing my girls wear some of my archived pieces and adding their own touch #FashionFriday #flashbackfriday."

Spring Breakers

Jessica and Cash took their kids on a tropical vacation during Spring Break 2024.

One Big, Hoppy Family

"Easter with my mains," Jessica captioned this family snapshot in April 2024. "#HappyEaster."

Magical Memories

The Happiest Place on Earth got a whole lot happier when the family celebrated Hayes' 6th birthday there in January 2024.

Three Generations

The Sin City alum was joined by her mom Cathy Alba and her three kids on Mother's Day 2024.

Major Swifties

The family made the whole place shimmer when they caught Taylor Swift's Eras Tour in Los Angeles August 2023.

First Day of School

Jessica held Hayes' hand during his first day of kindergarten in September 2023.

Girls' Night Out

The Fantastic Four star had a girls' night out with her daughters in November 2022, though her son couldn't help but to join in on the photo fun.

Keep on Truckin'

"This monster truck and his mechanics are trick-or-treat ready," Jessica wrote on Halloween 2022, sharing a photo of her and Cash's coordinating costumes with Hayes.

The Kid Stays in the Picture

The family enjoyed a movie night for Honor's 14th birthday in June 2022.

Academic Milestone

Honor celebrated her middle school graduation with her entire family in June 2022.

Girl Power

Jessica marked International Women's Day 2022 with Honor and Haven, writing in part on Instagram, "As a mama of two daughters, I am constantly fighting to leave this world better than I found it - not only for them, but for every single person in the world and for the next generations of girls to come."

Furry Friends

The family adopted dogs Dolly and Lucy—short for Lucille and Dolores—in 2022.

Hear Me Roar

The parents and their cubs had a roarin' good time dressing up as lions for Halloween 2021.

Baby Boy

Cash and his daughters visited Hayes in the hospital after he was born on New Year's Eve 2017. 

Fang-tastic Halloween

Jessica and Warren vamped it up with Honor and Haven in October 2017.

Kisses

Cash received sweet smooches from his daughter in this July 2016 snapshot.

Aloha

Haven rang in her 5th birthday in 2016 with a tropical themed party.

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