Teddi Mellencamp is just trying to figure it out as she goes along.
Two months after announcing her divorce from husband Edwin Arroyave, the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills alum celebrated her first Christmas alone.
“In my Bridget Jones era,” she captioned a video of herself in pajamas singing Jamie O’Neal’s “All By Myself,” a nod to Renée Zellweger's iconic character. “If I don’t laugh at myself, I would cry.”
Especially because her kids Slate, 12, Cruz, 10, and Dove, 4, were with their dad for the day. “I know they’re in great hands with an amazing dad, but that doesn’t mean I can’t feel some type of way,” she added. “Ordered $64 of Thai food, eating cookie dough (who has time to bake) and watched 9 episodes of Lioness.”
And the 43-year-old knows she isn’t the only lacking some Christmas spirit. “To all my parents out there going through this,” she continued, “I love you. What are all the tips for powering through?”
Well, ask and you shall receive, Teddi.
"The first one was brutal and I wish I could say it gets easier but even a new husband and a baby and it’s still not normal to not have all your babies under one roof on Christmas,” Jana Kramer wrote in the comments. “Sending love. You got this momma."
Added Real Housewives of Dubai's Caroline Stanbury, “It gets easier and now i am sitting with my kids and my ex husband having an amazing christmas again.”
Back in November, Teddi announced she and Edwin had broken up after 13 years of marriage.
"After a great deal of care and consideration, I have made the difficult decision to file for divorce," she wrote on Instagram. Nov 2. "My priority is my children and ensuring that every care is taken with their privacy and wellbeing throughout this new chapter."
"Making a public statement is not something I wanted to do but in an effort to protect my family from undue speculation and rumors," she continued, "I felt being open, honest and vulnerable was the best path forward."
And she's taken that to heart.
"I know that I am gonna keep working on feeling my best so that I can show up the best for my kids and my life and my work," Teddi shared on a November episode of her and Tamra Judge's Two T's in a Pod podcast. "I think that's the biggest thing for me right now."
To see how more stars are ringing in the holidays, read on...
Sofia Richie
The model was going for gold in her Christmas decor and coordinating wrapping paper.
Karlie Kloss & Joshua Kushner
The model and her husband lit the candles on their menorah for Hanukkah 2024 with sons Levi, 3, and Elijah, 17 months.
Kylie Jenner
The makeup mogul showered her son Aire Webster with Despicable Me minion plushies under the tree.
Hailey Bieber
The model gave a glimpse into her first Christmas with her and Justin Bieber's son Jack Bieber, sharing a snap of her pajama "cozies" and their breakfast of soft-boiled eggs and caviar.
Chrissy Teigen & John Legend
"Christmas morning in London! Merry Christmas, guys. We love you so much," Chrissy wrote alongside the family pic with kids Luna, Miles, Esti and Wren.
Tori Spelling
"Love Actually," the Beverly Hills, 90210 alum captioned this photo of herself and kids Liam McDermott, Stella McDermott, Hattie McDermott, Finn McDermott and Beau McDermott. "Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah to all. Sending love from our family to yours."
David Beckham & Victoria Beckham
The couple spiced up their Christmas celebrations with kids Brooklyn Beckham, Romeo Beckham, Cruz Beckham and Haper Beckham, as well as daughter-in-law Nicola Peltz.
Britney Spears
The "Toxic" singer and her youngest son Jayden Federline celebrated Christmas with a sweet reunion.
Heather Rae El Moussa & Tarek El Moussa
The HGTV stars celebrated the holidays with this hilarious snap featuring kids Taylor, Brayden and a tearful Tristan.
Madonna
The pop icon celebrated "X-mas and Hanukkah all at once" with her family, including daughters Lourdes, Mercy, Stella and Estere.
Chanel Iman
The supermodel, along with daughters Cali and Cassie, enjoyed at in-house self-care spa day together with Disney Deluxe Day Spa from Jakks Pacific.
Michael Bolton
"Sending warm wishes for a holiday season filled with peace, love, and joy,” the singer wrote . “May the New Year bring health, happiness, and countless moments to cherish. Here’s to fresh starts and beautiful moments in 2025!"
Gabourey Sidibe
The Precious star rang in her first Christmas as a mom with twins Maya and Cooper.
Tallulah Willus
Bruce Willis and Demi Moore's daughter got the greatest gift of all on Christmas Eve: a lifetime with her new fiancé Justin Acee.
Dua Lipa
The singer's holiday with boyfriend Callum Turner is not an illusion.
Hoda Kotb
The Today cohost got in the holiday spirit with her daughters Hope and Haley as well ex Joel Schiffman.
Billy Joel
"Merry Christmas to All," wrote the Piano Man, "and to All A Good Night!"
Brooke Shields
The supermodel and husband Chris Henchy posed alongside daughters Grier and Rowan.
Reese Witherspoon
"Wishing all of you a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!" the actress captioned her snap with kids Ava Phillippe, Deacon Phillippe and Tennessee Toth.
Brittany Mahomes
While husband Patrick Mahomes and the Kansas City Chiefs took on the Pittsburgh Steelers Dec. 25, his pregnant wife cheered on from home with kids Sterling and Bronze.
Christian Siriano
The fashion designer attends David Barton and Susanne Bartsch’s 25th annual toy drive at Gym U in New York City.
Bronwyn Newport, Angie Katsanevas, Mary Cosby & Whitney Rose
The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City costars escape the Utah snow to party at DIRECTV’s Christmas at Kathy’s bash in Beverly Hills.
Larsa Pippen & Marysol Patton
The Real Housewives of Miami costars rock Printfresh pajamas for Marysol's Recharge & Reset holiday pajama party.
Kourtney Kardashian
The Poosh founder gave fans a glimpse at her holiday decor, which included numerous Christmas trees all around her home, with one upside down.
Kris Jenner
The Kardashians star is definitely the most interesting to look at while attending Kathy & Nicky Hilton's Annual Holiday Printfresh Pajama Launch Party Benefitting Animal Haven and Camp Cocker Rescue in L.A.
Jennifer Aniston
The Friends alum showed off her festive Christmas tree, complete with her coveted olive jar ornament.
Cynthia Bailey & Crystal Kung Minkoff
The Real Housewives stars co-host The Abbey’s 15th Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony in honor of World AIDS Day benefiting The Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation in West Hollywood.
Kathy Hilton & Nicky Hilton
The mother-daughter duo host the hottest holiday party in the 90210.
Tarek El Moussa & Heather Rae El Moussa
The lovebirds attend DIRECTV’s Christmas at Kathy’s party benefitting Ronald McDonald House charities.
Heather Dubrow
The Real Housewives of Orange County star swapped Prada for pajamas during Kathy & Nicky Hilton's Annual Holiday Printfresh Pajama Launch Party.