Tori Spelling Details Role Playing Donna Martin for Dean McDermott During Sex

Tori Spelling shared that her ex Dean McDermott previously referred to her as her Beverly Hills, 90210 character Donna Martin while having sex.

By Brahmjot Kaur Jul 14, 2025 8:46 PMTags
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Tori Spelling brought Donna Martin out for one intimate evening.

The Beverly Hills, 90210 alum revealed she fulfilled her estranged husband Dean McDermott’s fantasy in the bedroom by revisiting her days at West Beverly Hills High School. 

Dean, my ex, when we met, he was telling me that he had a big crush on me,” she said on the July 14 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. “He would always have his hockey game with all his buddies on Wednesday night, and he would always get out of there early. They'd be in the locker room, 'You gotta go home and see your girlfriend.'”

She added, “He was like, ‘Yeah, no shame. I’m a guy watching 90210 and I have a crush on Tori Spelling.”

For Tori, it wasn’t until she and Dean—who broke up in 2023 after 18 years of marriage—made their way to the bedroom that she had confirmation he wasn’t just gassing her up.

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"I always thought I was like, 'Are you just making that up to get with me?' But, no,” she revealed. “At some point during one of our sessions, during sex, he said, 'Oh, my little Donna Martin.’”

As for how the Saved by the Bell alum reacted? She teased, “I might have giggled back like Donna.”

Although Tori—who shares kids Liam, 18, Stella, 17, Hattie, 13, Finn, 12, and Beau, 8 with Dean—was happy to play out his fantasy, it isn’t something she’s interested in exploring further. 

As she added, “If I was intimate with a man and he was like, ‘Will you role-play, like you act like Donna Martin?’ that would really creep me out.”

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However, Tori, who debuted her romance with Ryan Cramer in April, admitted that the line between her and her character was blurry. 

“It was the ‘90s,” she explained. “It was primetime. You couldn't curse, you couldn't push the envelope. So Donna is Tori, just Tori has a potty mouth. But Donna had a potty mouth.”

For more of Tori’s candid confessions, keep reading.

Tori Spelling Says Ex Dean McDermott Called Her By Another Name During Sex

Tori Spelling made ex-husband Dean McDermott's dream come true after he called her by her Beverly Hills, 90210 character's name, Donna Martin, during sex.

"Dean, my ex, when we met, he was telling me that he had a big crush on me," she said on a July 2025 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. "He would always have his hockey game with all his buddies on Wednesday night, and he would always get out of there early. They'd be in the locker room, 'You gotta go home and see your girlfriend.'"

Dean wasn't fazed by his teammates' teasing, with Tori recalling, "He was like, 'Yeah. No shame. I'm going home. I'm a guy. I'm watching 90210."

And it seems his crush on her character didn't fade.

"I always thought I was like, 'Are you just making that up to get with me?' But, no. At some point during one of our sessions, during sex, he said, 'Oh, my little Donna Martin,'" she recalled. "I might have giggled back like Donna."

Tori Spelling Reveals Question From Daughter Hattie That Led to Dean McDermott Breakup

Tori revealed the conversation she and Dean’s daughter Hattie had about the state of their marriage, in which their middle of five kids asked her mom, “Have you ever considered what it would be like to be with someone else and not dad and get treated right?”

"It got to the point where it was worse for the kids to see us together," she shared on an April 2025 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. "We could no longer hide what was happening, the fights." 

Tori—who also shares kids Liam, Stella, Finn, and Beau with Dean—emphasized that Hattie’s observations had nothing to do with picking sides. After all, she insisted that her daughter “loves her dad."

"He was an addict going through a lot, and a lot of it was taken out on me and she saw that,” she added. “I didn't like the person I was, trying to raise strong humans and just taking it and taking it."

Tori Spelling Wishes Her and Ex Dean McDermott’s Sex Tape Was Leaked

Tori wouldn't mind going down in infamy if her and Dean's 2009 sex tape had gotten released to the public. After all, she revealed that a friend of theirs who was staying at their house had taken the computer that had their video and tried to sell it online. 

"They actually contacted us and said, 'We want to let you know we didn't accept it,'" she said of the porn site on an April 2025 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. "And I'm like, 'Why? Were my angles not good?'"

Looking back, the actress wouldn't have minded if the video had been released.

"I don't believe in regrets. I'm bummed I said no to Playboy and now at 51, I wish I'd been on the cover of f--king Playboy," she added. "I was doing it with my husband and we were together. I should have let that sex tape go out."

Tori Spelling Reminds Brian Austin Green of Their First Time Having Sex

Tori and Beverly Hills, 90210 costar Brian Austin Green's relationship went beyond the TV screen, despite the latter not remembering it all. 

"I was like, 'Why are you always getting mad? Why are we always fighting?'" Tori recalled in a November 2024 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. "And you said, 'Have you ever thought that maybe I fight with you because I love you?'"

"It was like we were out of a John Hughes movie," she continued. "Then, you started kissing me in the middle of public, and I was like, 'Oh my god. There are people around and he's kissing me. This is crazy!' And then you were like, 'Do you want to get out of here?' and I was like, 'Yeah!'" 

But Tori's retelling didn't seem to jog the Knots Landing actor's memory, who admitted, "I remember other times, but I do not remember that time at all. I don't know how that's possible."

Tori Spelling Says She Tried to Stab Her Brother Randy Spelling As a Kid

Tori revealed that her pointed dynamic with brother Randy Spelling led to her "going bats--t crazy" and trying to stab him with a letter opener, although a rock was also on the table.

"I think people from the outside perspective probably think there's nothing relatable about our childhood," she recalled on an August 2024 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. "We still had the sibling relationship, and we still had the fights, the fun times, all of it. There was the time I tried to stab you."

"You would always be at the door and you'd always be listening," she continued. "I threw open the door, grabbed my crystal, King Arthur's sword in the stone, pulled up my letter opener, and I ran out and tried to stab him."

Although she asserted that she wasn't really going to hurt him, Randy said he was haunted by "the look" his sister gave him. He quipped, "Something malfunctions, something takes over."

Tori Spelling Gifted Ex Dean McDermott a Brass Sex Toy For Wedding Anniversary

Tori gave Dean a gift better than any gold, er, bronze medal. After all, the Scary Movie actress gifted her now-ex a handmade brass c--k ring for the eighth wedding anniversary.

"I was that girl that took a lot of pride in anniversaries," she explained during the May 2025 episode of her misSPELLING podcast. "I'm a DIYer. I'm a crafter to the core. All my kids came out of utero crafting because I made them."

So, she wanted to come up with something unique to honor the milestone, in which couples gift each other something bronze. She recalled, "I hammered it. Oh, my god. I'm so talented. I welded it."

TorI Spelling Admits to Peeing in Son’s Diaper While Stuck in Traffic

When Tori had to go, she had to go. And while it wasn't ideal, she revealed that she once relieved herself in her youngest son's diaper while she was stuck in Los Angeles traffic.

"I literally reached back in my Tori Poppins bag and I'm like, 'Something. Please, God, something,'" she revealed on the April 2025 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. "I went through and I'm like, 'Aha! A diaper!' and I literally put on a diaper and p---ed in my pants in Beau's diaper."

Tori Spelling Recalls Discovering “Human Big Toe” in Hotel Room

Tori alleged that her dog Musso once discovered a “severed human big toe” while she and Dean were staying at a luxury hotel in Toronto, Canada, though the staff barely flinched at the gruesome find.

 

“We put it in a napkin from our dinner and Dean brought it down to them,” she shared on an August 2025 episode of her MisSpelling podcast. “I think they gave us a credit if we ever stayed there again. Ever stayed there again? Never going to stay there again.”

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