Reese Witherspoon Shares Tearful Insight Into Raising 3 Kids in Hollywood 

Reese Witherspoon reflected on the sacrifices she made in her career as mother to her three children and why some moments brought her to tears.

By Tionah Lee Aug 15, 2025 3:27 PM
| Updated Aug 15, 2025 4:58 PM
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Reese Witherspoon is shining the spotlight on being a working mom in Hollywood.

The Legally Blonde star got candid about the ups and downs that came with raising her kids Ava Philippe, 25, and Deacon Philippe, 21—whom she shares with ex Ryan Philippe—and 12-year-old son Tennessee Toth—who she shares with ex Jim Toth.

Someone asked me what raising three kids and building a career in Hollywood looked like,” Reese, 49, wrote in an Aug. 14 Instagram carousel featuring throwback pics posing with her three kids at work on set, on the way to premieres and in everyday life. “It looked like spending a lot of time in trailers together. It looked like always being on the road together.”

As the Big Little Lies star noted, the glitz and glam also came with a lot of tears.

“It looked really hard sometimes I’d cry working 14 to 17 hours, sometimes all night long and still woke up early for carpool,” she wrote over a throwback selfie with Ava and Deacon. “I was deliriously tired.”

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“It looked like trying to say something positive about work when I got home at night,” she continued. “so, my kids would know that my work was meaningful to me and could be fun!”

For Reese, who’s dating financier Oliver Haarmann, balancing motherhood with her career was the ultimate reward.

“In conclusion, even though it was challenging at times, having kids gave me perspective about what was important in life,” she added. “Nothing was better than getting to come home and hug them and hear about their day.”

And through all the career highlights she’s shared with her kids, Reese admitted they have no interest in her roles outside of being mom.

"My children actively avoid my work," she told E! News in January. "I literally have my son tell me last night that he did not know I made a living being funny. He was like, 'I just didn't realize. You're funny at home—sort of.'"

Indeed, according to her son, she’s aged out of appealing to their demographic.

"He told me kids his age won't want to go see it because we're old," Reese quipped. "That's what he said to me: 'You're old. But they'll love it when they do watch it with their parents.'"

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