Kelsea Ballerini Gets Emotional in First Performance After Chase Stokes Breakup

Kelsea Ballerini took the stage for the first time since her breakup from Chase Stokes and was noticeably touched by her fans' support.

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Cowgirls cry too.

Kelsea Ballerini got emotional as she took the stage for the first time since her breakup from Chase Stokes

The country star performed at The Riviera Theatre in Chicago Sept. 25 and delivered a heart wrenching rendition of her hit "Penthouse," as seen in a video from @fearisthemindkillr obtained by E! News.

After singing the song's bridge, which has the lyrics, "It hurts putting s--t in a box / And now we don't talk box / And it stings rolling up the welcome mat / Knowing you got half,"  Kelsea waited several extra beats to compose herself and take in the support from the cheering crowd while shaking her head and smiling.

"I kissed someone new last night," she continued singing. "But now I don't know where you're sleeping, baby."

Once the song was over, she momentarily slumped down into her lap, seemingly touched by the overwhelming fan support.

The performance marked Kelsea's first major outing since her rep confirmed to E! News Sept. 14 that she and Chase had broken up after nearly three years of dating.

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While she hasn't addressed the breakup directly, the 32-year-old did send a message with a fiery video posted amid speculation about their split, with a message to those weighing in on her first public outing following the breakup to a hair salon.

"CC: speculators, ‘sources’, and hidden cameras outside the hair salon,” she captioned a Sept. 23 video posted to TikTok, set to Ariana Grande's "Shut Up." “Let us be. please.”

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While there had been rumors that the pair had broken up this summer, Chase had shut down the speculation in August by posting a sweet pic of her dog Dibs to his Instagram with a red heart emoji.

Indeed, all signs pointed to them still being together up until two days before Kelsea's confirmation of their breakup when the Outer Banks star shared a heartfelt tribute to the "Peter Pan" singer for her birthday.

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“Although you keep saying you’re not excited for 32,” he wrote on Instagram Sept. 12 alongside photos of the two, “I’d say I’m lookin’ forward to more of this.”

He added, “Happy birthday my love.”

Keep reading for more on Chase and Kelsea's romance...

December 2022: Shooting Her Shot

Kelsea Ballerini slid into Chase Stokes' DMs on Dec. 1, 2022 at 1:30 a.m. while she was out drunk with friends at a bar.

They eventually met up in person for the first time on Jan. 7, 2023, which she considers their anniversary. 

"He hopped out of his Bronco, and he did not say a word to me," Kelsea later recalled on Call Her Daddy in November 2023, "and he grabbed my face and he kissed me and he pulled my face away and he said, 'Thank God you're real.'"

December 2022: Shooting Her Shot

Their romance blossomed after that first DM, which Kelsea shared in September 2023.

January 2023: Romance Rumors

The two were photographed looking cozy at a football game.

January 2023: First Date Nerves

In August 2023, Kelsea posted footage of the beginning of their relationship, sharing a throwback clip on TikTok of herself preparing for their first official date on Jan. 7, 2023. 

"Happy weekend," she captioned the post, "heres a video i sent to my best friend before my first date with chase."

Set to her song "How Do I Do This," which is about going on a first date after many years, Kelsea modeled her outfit in the video.

"Here's the look, with the boots" Kelsea said while checking herself out in a full-length mirror.

Turning around to showcase her half-up, half-down hairstyle, she added, "We've got the hair clip, because we're trying to be a cool girl."

She continued speaking to an unnamed friend, explaining, "He's picking me up and we're going to a sushi place and I'll call you tomorrow and for a full update."

Taking a deep breath and raising one arm and finger in the air, she finally said, "I can do this. I can do this."

And, after doing a little dance, she proclaimed, "It's just a date. You just go and you just eat food and you talk about things that you do, OK?"

February 2023: Instagram Cuteness

Chase shared a pic of himself and Kelsea showing some PDA.

April 2023: Award Show PDA

The two showcased their love on the CMAs red carpet.

April 2023: Broadway Baby

The twosome attended the premiere party for the Broadway musical Shucked at Capitale.

April 2023: Red Carpet Debut

The pair officially stepped out as a couple at the CMT Music Awards.

May 2023: Hometown Visit

Chase joined Kelsea on a trip to her hometown of Knoxville, Tenn.

July 2023: PDA Alert

The two attended Armani Beauty's ACQUA DI GIO and Gen A celebration in Malibu, Calif.

July 2023: The Sweetest Surprise

Chase shocked Kelsea when he unexpectedly greeted her at the airport, with both stars posting video and photos from their adorable reunion. 

August 2023: Ciao Bella

The couple only had eyes for one another at a Venice Film Festival event.

August 2023: NYC Date Night

The two were spotted on a summer date in NYC, where the singer performed on TODAY.

"It's just nice to feel so supported and seen," Kelsea said on the show of Chase, "and, yeah, he's such a wonderful, wonderful human being."

September 2023: Red Hot

The two appeared together at the 2023 MTV VMAs on Kelsea's birthday.

September 2023: VMAs PDA

The two shared a kiss on the red carpet.

September 2023: Couple's Selfie

Kelsea unveiled this pic on Chase's 31st birthday days later.

September 2023: Birthday Love

To commemorate Kelsea's 30th birthday on Sept. 12, 2023 Chase posted a carousel of photos and videos of the three-time Grammy nominee. 

"Dirty 30 looks pretty damn good on you ballerini," he captioned the series. "i love you."

September 2023: All Smiles

Kelsea shared this behind-the-scenes look from the event.

September 2023: A Black Tie Affair

Kelsea and Chase were dressed to the nines when they attended designer Giorgio Armani's One Night Only event on in Venice, Italy. 

The singer-songwriter and the Outer Banks star shared images of their getaway on Instagram, including snaps from a cooking class and lounging at the beach.

November 2023: Loving Like They Mean It

Kelsea planted a smooch on Chase's cheek at the CMA Awards in November 2023.

November 2023: Sex Confession

Kelsea revealed details of their sex life in November 2023, telling Alex Cooper on Call Her Daddy, "I'm having a nice time."

"My experience with it was very performative and for the other person," she noted. "And it don't be like that anymore."

The musician didn't understand how sex could be "a real connector in a relationship" before dating him.

"I always thought that it was just something that you did because that's who you do it with," the Grammy nominee shared. "Now I realize it's a connector for people."

January 2024: Chase's Anniversary Post

"One year of lovin you," the actor wrote. "P.s. told ya I wouldn’t embarrass you."

January 2024: Naughty Selfie

"A whole trip around the sun with my bestie," Kelsea wrote in her anniversary post. "@hichasestokes thanks for making me write love songs."

January 2024: Watching the Sunset

Kelsea shared this romantic pic on their first dating anniversary.

January 2024: Happy Anniversary

The two celebrated the anniversary of their first date.

September 2024: Red Carpet Date Night

Kelsea joined her boyfriend at the premiere of his Netflix movie Uglies.

September 2025: Break Up

After nearly three years together, the duo officially called it quits on their relationship.