Mormon Wives’ Jessi Ngatikaura Announces Social Media Break After She “Spilled the Pee”

Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' Jessi Ngatikaura announced that she's stepping back from social media following her heated back-and-forth with costar Demi Engemann.

By Gibson Johns Nov 26, 2025 5:31 PM
| Updated Nov 26, 2025 5:31 PM
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Watch: Mormon Wives' Jessi Ngatikaura Makes NSFW Claim About Costar Demi Engemann's Husband Bret

Jessi Ngatikaura is taking a (pee) break.

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star announced that she'll be stepping away from social media after making a NSFW confession about costar Demi Engemann and her husband Bret Engemann.

"ok now that i've spilled the pee," Jessi wrote on her Instagram Stories Nov. 25, the same day she made the reveal. "i'm hopping off socials again. it was really such a great mental break & i miss it lol."

"i was petty as hell today, but i'm done backing down to someone who had made my life hell last year," she continued. "thanks for following along today."

The 33-year-old, who is married to Jordan Ngatikaura, had previously announced a break from social media before returning to respond to Demi’s recent unflattering remarks about her online. 

"Since she wants to be petty and be an a--hole,” Jessi said in a video posted on her Instagram Stories Nov. 25, “I think I’m just gonna go ahead and say that grandpa Bret likes to drink her piss like it’s dirty soda and he gulps it down like water.”

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Mormon Wives' Jessi Ngatikaura Makes NSFW Claim About Costar Demi Engemann's Husband Bret

After Jessi’s remark went viral, Demi responded with a statement of her own.

"What my husband and I did one-time behind closed doors, was a consensual and private experience in our marriage,” Demi wrote in a Nov. 25 Instagram Story. “I won't let a private act between my husband and I be a distraction from a serious act that I did not consent to."

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The 30-year-old went on to explain that she had “shared this information with Jessi in confidence nearly two years ago.”

She added that she found it “very telling” that Jessi chose “to break storyline and bring it up now.” She went on to speculate as to whether the timing had anything to do with the season three revelation about Jessi’s own emotional affair with Marciano Brunette, whom Demi alleged had engaged in “unwanted touch” with her while the Mormon Wives cast filmed a Vanderpump Villa crossover episode in season two. (For his part Marciano called Demi’s allegations “not only entirely false but profoundly damaging.”)

Demi finished by saying that "this is nothing more than a desperate attempt to shift attention away from her own behavior."

Jessi reacted to her costar's statement by accusing Demi of not being transparent with her life on Mormon Wives.

"Shift attention away from what exactly?" she wrote on her Instagram Stories the same day. "I have been the only one between the two of us to actually face my story head on and share the details. I'm not hiding from a damn thing. You're the one hiding sweetheart and everyone can see it."

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The costars also went back and forth about taking a break from social media, with both of them encouraging one another to step away from posting.

"I thought she took a break from social media?" Demi commented under a video about their feud on TikTok, as seen on Jessi's Instagram Stories. "Good to know this is all it took to have that fame wh0re come crawling back."

In response, Jessi wrote on her Stories, "Demi, I think you're the one who needs a break from socials now. Time to ship off to the loony bin."

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