Rob Reiner’s Friend Details Staying in His Home With Nick Reiner and Family Weeks Before Murders

Barry Markowitz said he stayed at Rob Reiner and Michele Reiner's home weeks before they were killed, noting that their son Nick Reiner—who's been accused of their murders—was "on the upswing."

By Gabrielle Chung Dec 17, 2025 12:50 AM
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Watch: Rob Reiner’s Friend Details Staying in His Home With Nick Reiner and Family Weeks Before Murders

New light is being shed on Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner's relationship with their son Nick Reiner.

Cinematographer Barry Markowitz said he stayed with the family at their Los Angeles home just weeks before Rob, 78, and Michele, 70, were found dead inside the residence. According to him, Nick—who's been accused of murdering his parents—appeared to be "on the upswing" after spending years struggling with addiction.

“He looked great," Barry told Page Six in an interview published Dec. 16. "He helped out, he took out the garbage, he watched TV, he washed dishes."

The filmmaker continued, "He was just normal in that sense."

Barry—who stayed with the Reiners in November while visiting L.A. for work—added that his time under their roof was "one big love fest."

“They eat dinner together," he shared of the family. "A lot of love, always a lot of love."

That's why Barry—who worked with Rob and Nick in 2015's Being Charlie, an autobiographical film about the 32-year-old's embattled past—has been rocked by reports that there was recent tension between the father-son duo.

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"What’s puzzling the most," he said, "is that there was so much love."

Barry continued, "I don't think it was fake. They had a real bond."

And while Barry did not get to spend time with Rob and Michele's other son Jake Reiner, 34, during his visit to the family's homestead, he said the couple's daughter Romy Reiner, 27, was also warm and welcoming.

"At dinner time, she comes over and we all bulls--t together," he remembered, adding that he didn’t notice "anything strange" with the family dynamics. "L. O. V. E. is the only thing I saw."

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Nick was arrested and booked on suspicion of murder on the night of Dec. 14, shortly after Rob and Michele's bodies were found inside the family home. Two days later, Los Angeles County District Attorney Nathan Hochman announced that his office would be moving forward in charging Nick with two counts of first-degree murder with a special circumstance of multiple murders.

He also confirmed that Nick will face a "special allegation that he personally used a dangerous and deadly weapon, that being a knife" on his parents.

The D.A. added, "These charges carry a maximum sentence of life in prison without the possibility of parole or the death penalty."

For a detailed timeline into Rob and Michele's deaths, read on.

Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner's Son Nick Reiner Details Struggle With Drugs

Years before Rob Reiner and Michele Singer Reiner’s tragic deaths, their son Nick Reiner shared that he struggled with addiction, even collaborating with his father on the 2015 film Being Charlie about substance abuse.

Nick explained that he had been to rehab 17 times before turning 30. 

“I was homeless in Maine. I was homeless in New Jersey. I was homeless in Texas,” he told People in 2016. “I spent nights on the street. I spent weeks on the street. It was not fun.”

Two years later, Nick recalled an instance when he “wrecked” his home while high on drugs. 

“I went 10 rounds in my guest house,” he shared on the Dopey podcast in 2018. “I got totally spun out on uppers—I think it was coke and something else—and I was up for days on end. I started punching out some things in my guest house.”

Rob Reiner and Nick Reiner Fight at Conan O’Brien’s Christmas Party on Night Before Couple Is Found Dead

The When Harry Met Sally director and his 32-year-old son got into a heated argument at Conan O’Brien’s Christmas party on Dec. 13, multiple sources at the event told People. Family friends also confirmed to the L.A. Times that Rob and Nick fought at the holiday celebration, saying that guests noticed Nick acting strangely.

Two sources with knowledge of the situation told NBC News that Nick was being disruptive at the party and interrupting conversations.

Jane Fonda Says Michele & Rob Reiner Were "Happy" Night Before Deaths

Jane Fonda saw Rob and Michele the night before their tragic deaths.

"I saw them night before last looking healthy and happy," the actress wrote on Instagram Dec. 15. "I am reeling with grief. Stunned."

Rob Reiner and Wife Michele Singer Reiner Are Found Dead in Their Brentwood, Calif., Home

The day after the Christmas party, the Los Angeles Police Department responded to a call of a death investigation at a home in Brentwood, Calif., at about 3:40 p.m. on Dec. 14.

“Once inside the residence, officers discovered two victims,” the LAPD said in a press release, “who were subsequently identified as Robert and Michele Reiner.”

The Robbery Homicide Division, Homicide Special Section (RHD/HSS) started an investigation into the circumstances of their deaths.

Deputy Police Chief Alan Hamilton told reporters that many family members would be interviewed, per NBC News. In addition to Nick, the couple are parents to daughter Romy Reiner and son Jake Reiner, and Rob also adopted late ex-wife Penny Marshall's daughter Tracy Reiner.

The Reiners’ Manner of Death Revealed as Homicide 

It was determined that Rob and Michele did not die of natural causes, with a source close to the Reiner family telling NBC News that the couple appeared to have died from stab wounds. 

“As a result of the initial investigation,” the LAPD said in a press release, “it was determined that the Reiners were the victims of homicide.”

Nick Reiner Seen in Gas Station Footage Before Arrest

While police investigated the case, Nick was filmed buying a Gatorade at an ARCO gas station in downtown Los Angeles near USC around 9 p.m. Dec. 14. He was wearing a green jacket, jeans and a ballcap while carrying a red backpack, as seen in footage obtained by MS NOW.

Nick Reiner Is Arrested on Suspicion of Murder

Minutes later, the screenwriter was taken into custody near USC.

The LAPD said their investigation determined that Rob and Michele's son was "responsible for their deaths.”

“Nick Reiner was located and arrested at approximately 9:15 p.m.,” police said in a press release, adding as of Dec. 15, “He was booked for murder and remains in custody with no bail.”

The Obamas Had Plans to Meet With the Reiners

During an appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Live Dec. 15, Michelle Obama revealed that she and husband Barack Obama were supposed to see Rob and Michele on the day they were found dead.

Nick Reiner Hires Alan Jackson—Lawyer for Harvey Weinstein and Kevin Spacey—as His Attorney

Two days after Nick was arrested in connection to the murder of his parents, criminal defense attorney Alan Jackson—who previously represented Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey and Karen Read—confirmed to E! News Dec. 16 that he had been hire as Nick's attorney in the case.

Nick Reiner's Courthouse Absence Explained

As officials gathered at a Los Angeles courthouse Dec. 16 to announce formal charges against Nick, his attorney told reporters that the screenwriter "has not been medically cleared" to appear in front of a judge.

“Every inmate has to be medically cleared before they can be transported to court," he explained to reporters, per MS NOW. “Hopefully, he’ll be cleared tomorrow and we can get him here.”

Nick Reiner Charged With Murder

Los Angeles County District Attorney Nathan Hochman announced on Dec. 16 that his office plans to formally charge Nick with "two counts of first-degree murder with a special circumstance of multiple murders."

The D.A. also confirmed Nick will also face a "special allegation that he personally used a dangerous and deadly weapon, that being a knife" on his parents.

He added, "These charges carry a maximum sentence of life in prison without the possibility of parole or the death penalty."

Nick was formally charged Dec. 16. 

Approximate Time of Death Revealed

Though Rob and Michele's bodies were discovered around 3 p.m. on Dec. 14, they were likely killed around 12 hours prior, according to authorities. 

The district attorney said in a Dec. 16 press release that the murders took place "in approximately the early morning hours of December 14."

Authorities Share Murder Weapon Details

Nick is accused of "fatally stabbing" his parents, per the D.A. press release on Dec. 16. He allegedly "personally used a dangerous and deadly weapon, a knife" in the murders. 

Nick Reiner Appears in Court

On Dec. 17, Nick appeared in court for the first time, arriving to the Los Angeles Supreme Court in a blue anti-suicide smock and shackles. He did not enter a plea to his charges during the appearance, instead agreeing to a date of Jan. 7 for the arraignment. 

Official Cause of Death Revealed 

The medical examiner determined Dec. 17 Rob and Michele each died by "multiple sharp force injuries," meaning several cuts or stabs from a sharp object.  

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