Hoda Kotb Proves Ex Joel Schiffman Is Still Part of Her Family With Christmas Shoutout

Today’s Hoda Kotb—who shares daughters Haley and Hope with ex Joel Schiffman—proved she’s still on friendly terms with her former fiancé.

By Olivia Evans Dec 23, 2024 6:42 PM
| Updated Dec 23, 2024 6:42 PM
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Hoda Kotb isn’t leaving her ex out of holiday celebrations. 

Two years after the Today show host and Joel Schiffman—who share daughters Haley, 7, and Hope, 5—called off their engagement following an eight-year relationship, she subtly proved he remains integral to their family.

In a post the 60-year-old shared to Instagram Dec. 22, she included a snap of some of the family’s stockings hung above the fireplace—including nods for her and her daughters, her sister Hala Kotb, and one for her mother, whom her daughters called “Teta,” as well as another for “Dad” Joel. 

Hoda wrote alongside the festive photo, “It’s all happening! Merry Everything!!”

And elsewhere in the post, Hoda—who announced her divorce from Joel in 2022, noting the former couple would continue to coparent—included snaps of her daughters enjoying time out in the snow. 

The television personality’s glimpse into her quality Christmas time with her daughters comes a little over three months after she announced she’d be leaving the Today show in order to spend more time with her family. 

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“I realized that it was time for me to turn the page at 60, and to try something new," she explained during the announcement of her departure in September. “I remembered standing outside looking at these beautiful bunch of people with these gorgeous signs, and I thought, 'This is what the top of the wave feels like for me.' And I thought it can't get better, and I decided that this is the right time for me to kind of move on.”

Indeed, Hoda noted that her new life chapter will prioritize spending time with her kids at their home outside of New York City.

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"Obviously I had my kiddos late in life, and I was thinking that they deserve a bigger piece of my time pie that I have,” she added. “I feel like we only have a finite amount of time.”

Hoda—whose last day of Today will be Jan. 10—has spoken out before on becoming a mom later in life when she adopted her two daughters alongside Joel in 2017 and 2019. 

And the news anchor has emphasized that having her daughters in her life have changed “everything” in her life—for the better. 

As she told Ellen DeGeneres during a 2018 appearance on her talk show, “I would take my worst day, the day when everything's falling apart, since Haley, over my favorite day before.”

Keep reading for more moments from Hoda and Joel’s sweet family. 

New Year, New Fun

The Joy 101 founder celebrated the beginning of the 2025-2026 school year by walking her daughters Haley and Hope to campus.

School Drop Off

Hoda celebrates her first free morning after leaving Today by personally dropping daughters Hope and Joy off at school.

Mommy Duty

"School drop!!! Let’s goooo!" the longtime NBC anchor captioned her Jan. 13, 2025 Instagram.

Halloween 2024

After announcing she's leaving Today, Hoda celebrates her first Halloween in the New York suburbs with her kids.

Cheer-Worthy

Haley and Hope match in cheerleader costumes.

Mother's Day Surprise

Hoda got emotional as Haley and Hope surprised her with an early Mother's Day gift.

Birthday Celebrations

Joined by her siblings Hala and Adel, nieces Hannah and Ella, mom Sami, daughters Haley Joy and Hope Catherine and fiancé Joel Schiffman, Hoda Kotb described the celebration as "my kinda birthday."

I <3 NY

Hoda enjoys a day with her daughters Haley Joy and Hope Catherine around New York City together.

Queens of Halloween

Another Halloween in the books! Hoda and her first daughter spend their another Halloween together as their Sesame Street alter egos.

Family Forever

The Today show momma spends time with her own mom (and Haley's grandma!) in this cute group shot on Halloween 2019.

Party Time

The host shared this pic of her and her little one at a Sesame Street party in Oct. 2019.

Suns Out, Funs Out

The daytime talk show host spends a day splashing around the beach in Aug. 2019.

Gift for Mama

Haley Joy looks cute as a button celebrating her mom's 55th birthday this past August.

Sweet Sister

"Look who is feeding Hope!" Kotb wrote on her Instagram in May 2019, showing off Haley feeding her newborn Hope.

Friends for Life

Kathie Lee Gifford, Hoda's close friend and long-time former co-host at Today, met Hope in early May and they were all smiles all day.

A Full House

In April, the 55-year-old host shared a photo of her full family for the first time on Instagram writing, "This is us xo."

Welcome Hope Catherine!

It's a girl! Hoda introduced Hope to the world after surprising her Today show family on-air revealing that she had secretly adopted her second child.

Birthday Girl

On Valentine's Day, the TV host celebrated Haley's second birthday and shared on Instagram how she felt saying, "So much love today."

Ho Ho Home

The beaming TV personality spent Christmas with her mother, sister and daughter.

Queen Bees

Haley celebrated her second Halloween by twinning with her mom in matching bee costumes.

Apple of Her Eye

In August of 2018, the mother-daughter duo spent an autumn day together picking apples.

Splashing Around

"I can't believe I get to do this .. #grateful" she wrote on her 54th birthday.

Proud Mama

On Mother's Day, Today co-anchor Hoda posed with her one-year-old cutie, Haley, as she sported a cute tee with the word "mama."

Mother's Day Duo

"Pre dawn photo shoots in bed are a blast," gushed the happy mom in a cute Insta selfie early on Mother's Day.

Sixtieth Surprise

On March 2018, the Oklahoma-native celebrated partner Joel Schiffman's 60th birthday with their baby girl and a homemade cake.

Post-Olympic Bliss

"Home!!!!!" announced the TV host on Instagram after spending two weeks covering the 2018 Winter Olympics in Pyeongchang, South Korea.

Pre-Olympics Shenanigans

The day before arriving in Pyeongchang for the 2018 Winter Olympics, the TV personality had some fun with her little sweetheart and her USA beanie.

Football's Cutest Fan

Gooo Saints! Hoda and her little sport's fan cheered on the New Orleans Saints in their game against the Minnesota Vikings on January 14.

Christmas Stripe Stars

"Santa we are ready!!!" the journalist wrote on this Christmas selfie with her mom, her partner and her little angel.

Turkey Time

On November 23, Hoda posed with her partner and her baby girl for the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade.

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