Taylor Frankie Paul is grappling with the realities of coparenting.
The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star shared a vulnerable post seemingly referring to her break up with Dakota Mortensen, with whom she shares 9-month-old son Ever True, and how she’s navigating being away from her son on his first Christmas.
“Chaos to pure silence,” the Tiktoker—also mom to daughter Indy, 7, and son Ocean, 4, with ex-husband Tate Paul— wrote over a tearful video. “Wouldn’t wish this pain upon anyone, if you’re there take a drive, scream, cry, feel the pain, because I promise avoiding it will make it much worse.”
She captioned the post, “I was told you got through this once, you’ll get through it again,” alongside hashtags for loss, relationships and coparenting.
For his part, Dakota shared a clip with Ever as he opened his first Christmas gift, captioning the post, “He is the only gift I’ll ever need in my life. I love being a dad.”
And when a fan commented on Taylor’s post referencing Dakota’s video, Taylor replied, “Just happy he can have his day with him.”
Plus, she has a whole legion of support behind her, from fans and friends alike.
Among the influx of supportive comments were notes from costars Mayci Neeley and Mikayla Matthews, who each shared their love for Taylor.
Back in September, the reality star confirmed that while she and Dakota had broken up, she wasn’t sure what lay in her future.
"I would say we’re working on things, and I actually have no idea where it goes with us from here," she told Us Weekly at the time. "We are not fully together, but not fully done. I don’t know what the future holds with him and I."
Taylor added, "It’s just a lot. I’m trying to cope."
Then, one month later, some of her social media posts had fans wondering if the pair had reconciled. In addition to a picture of the pair looking cozy at a gun range shared to her Instagram Story, on Oct. 21 Taylor shared—and then subsequently deleted—a quote that read, “Due to personal reasons, I'll be back with the same man I said I'm done with.”
And amid the growing fan speculation, Taylor shared a cryptic video which read, “She is such an unstable back and forth mess."
She captioned the post, “Unless you're living the same exact life, I don't expect anyone to understand."
Read on to see how more stars commemorated the holiday season…
Sofia Richie
The model was going for gold in her Christmas decor and coordinating wrapping paper.
Karlie Kloss & Joshua Kushner
The model and her husband lit the candles on their menorah for Hanukkah 2024 with sons Levi, 3, and Elijah, 17 months.
Kylie Jenner
The makeup mogul showered her son Aire Webster with Despicable Me minion plushies under the tree.
Hailey Bieber
The model gave a glimpse into her first Christmas with her and Justin Bieber's son Jack Bieber, sharing a snap of her pajama "cozies" and their breakfast of soft-boiled eggs and caviar.
Chrissy Teigen & John Legend
"Christmas morning in London! Merry Christmas, guys. We love you so much," Chrissy wrote alongside the family pic with kids Luna, Miles, Esti and Wren.
Tori Spelling
"Love Actually," the Beverly Hills, 90210 alum captioned this photo of herself and kids Liam McDermott, Stella McDermott, Hattie McDermott, Finn McDermott and Beau McDermott. "Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah to all. Sending love from our family to yours."
David Beckham & Victoria Beckham
The couple spiced up their Christmas celebrations with kids Brooklyn Beckham, Romeo Beckham, Cruz Beckham and Haper Beckham, as well as daughter-in-law Nicola Peltz.
Britney Spears
The "Toxic" singer and her youngest son Jayden Federline celebrated Christmas with a sweet reunion.
Heather Rae El Moussa & Tarek El Moussa
The HGTV stars celebrated the holidays with this hilarious snap featuring kids Taylor, Brayden and a tearful Tristan.
Madonna
The pop icon celebrated "X-mas and Hanukkah all at once" with her family, including daughters Lourdes, Mercy, Stella and Estere.
Chanel Iman
The supermodel, along with daughters Cali and Cassie, enjoyed at in-house self-care spa day together with Disney Deluxe Day Spa from Jakks Pacific.
Michael Bolton
"Sending warm wishes for a holiday season filled with peace, love, and joy,” the singer wrote . “May the New Year bring health, happiness, and countless moments to cherish. Here’s to fresh starts and beautiful moments in 2025!"
Gabourey Sidibe
The Precious star rang in her first Christmas as a mom with twins Maya and Cooper.
Tallulah Willus
Bruce Willis and Demi Moore's daughter got the greatest gift of all on Christmas Eve: a lifetime with her new fiancé Justin Acee.
Dua Lipa
The singer's holiday with boyfriend Callum Turner is not an illusion.
Hoda Kotb
The Today cohost got in the holiday spirit with her daughters Hope and Haley as well ex Joel Schiffman.
Billy Joel
"Merry Christmas to All," wrote the Piano Man, "and to All A Good Night!"
Brooke Shields
The supermodel and husband Chris Henchy posed alongside daughters Grier and Rowan.
Reese Witherspoon
"Wishing all of you a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!" the actress captioned her snap with kids Ava Phillippe, Deacon Phillippe and Tennessee Toth.
Brittany Mahomes
While husband Patrick Mahomes and the Kansas City Chiefs took on the Pittsburgh Steelers Dec. 25, his pregnant wife cheered on from home with kids Sterling and Bronze.
Christian Siriano
The fashion designer attends David Barton and Susanne Bartsch’s 25th annual toy drive at Gym U in New York City.
Bronwyn Newport, Angie Katsanevas, Mary Cosby & Whitney Rose
The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City costars escape the Utah snow to party at DIRECTV’s Christmas at Kathy’s bash in Beverly Hills.
Larsa Pippen & Marysol Patton
The Real Housewives of Miami costars rock Printfresh pajamas for Marysol's Recharge & Reset holiday pajama party.
Kourtney Kardashian
The Poosh founder gave fans a glimpse at her holiday decor, which included numerous Christmas trees all around her home, with one upside down.
Kris Jenner
The Kardashians star is definitely the most interesting to look at while attending Kathy & Nicky Hilton's Annual Holiday Printfresh Pajama Launch Party Benefitting Animal Haven and Camp Cocker Rescue in L.A.
Jennifer Aniston
The Friends alum showed off her festive Christmas tree, complete with her coveted olive jar ornament.
Cynthia Bailey & Crystal Kung Minkoff
The Real Housewives stars co-host The Abbey’s 15th Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony in honor of World AIDS Day benefiting The Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation in West Hollywood.
Kathy Hilton & Nicky Hilton
The mother-daughter duo host the hottest holiday party in the 90210.
Tarek El Moussa & Heather Rae El Moussa
The lovebirds attend DIRECTV’s Christmas at Kathy’s party benefitting Ronald McDonald House charities.
Heather Dubrow
The Real Housewives of Orange County star swapped Prada for pajamas during Kathy & Nicky Hilton's Annual Holiday Printfresh Pajama Launch Party.