Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco Celebrate Their First Hanukkah As An Engaged Couple

Engaged couple Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco partied with friends in New York City as they celebrated Hanukkah 2024. The duo shared the news of their engagement earlier this month.

By Sabba Rahbar Dec 26, 2024 7:24 PM
| Updated Dec 26, 2024 10:06 PM
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Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are breaking out the candles for eight crazy nights.

Less than a month after sharing they got engaged, the Only Murders in the Building actress and the record producer—real name Benjamin Joseph Levin—enjoyed a truly epic first night of Hanukkah celebration in New York City Dec. 25.

Cookbook author Jake Cohen, songwriter and composer Benj Pasek and comedian Alex Edelman gave fans a peek into Selena and Benny's party vibes, sharing a slew of photos to Instagram Dec. 26 in a joint post with the caption, "Some lonely Jews on Christmas getting lit."

In one of the pics, the engaged couple could be seen sporting their fanciest cozy sets with Benny, 36, wearing white jeans and a cream sweater, while Selena, 32, went for ultimate comfort in a grey, snowflake set and beanie. And Benny was clearly having a fantastic time, as he was out on the dance floor, doing the Hora to "Hava Nagila."

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Why Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's Romance Is Like a Love Song

The evening also featured a bevy of other Jewish stars including Will & Grace alum Debra Messing who gave a spoken word performance, plus composer Nicholas Britell played his iconic Succession theme and Broadway star Adam Kantor delighted the crowd with "Miracle of Miracles" from Fiddler on the Roof.

And of course, fans were thrilled to get an inside look at the festivities, especially where Selena and Benny were concerned, with one writing in the comments, "I hope @selenagomez knows what she signed up for!"

Instagram/Jake Cohen

The evening also featured a bevy of other Jewish stars including Will & Grace alum Debra Messing who gave a spoken word performance, plus composer Nicholas Britell played his iconic Succession theme and Broadway star Adam Kantor delighted the crowd with "Miracle of Miracles" from Fiddler on the Roof.

And of course, fans were thrilled to get an inside look at the festivities, especially where Selena and Benny were concerned, with one writing in the comments, "I hope @selenagomez knows what she signed up for!"

Another joked, "I've never wanted to be in the room where it happened so badly."

And as one fan quipped, "this really feels like the state of the union. plz protect this entire room at all costs. Was @barbrastreisand the designated survivor?"

The public outing was one of the first for Benny and Selena since announcing their engagement on Dec. 11 after over a year of dating.

Instagram/Jake Cohen

Selena shared the life update to her Instagram, posting a photo of her marquise-cut diamond ring and writing, "Forever begins now.."

And Benny quickly jumped in her comments, gushing, "Hey wait…that's my wife."

Although the duo had known each other for years, it wasn't until July 2023 that they officially started dating. And to hear Benny tell it, he didn't even realize the "Who Says" singer was interested in him the first time they got together.

"It was so crazy," Benny told Howard Stern in May, "when we went out on our first date, I didn't even know it was a date. She was like, 'Hey, you want to hang out?' And I was like, 'Yeah.'"

But as he recalled, Selena was "such a forward person and she's like the coolest, the nicest, the sweetest, everything."

"I remember sitting there," he continued, "and she's like, 'Well I would've worn something different for this date.' And I was like, 'What? We're on a date?'"

For a look back at Selena and Benny's love story, keep reading.

Blossoming Romance

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco began dating in July 2023, around Selena's birthday, Benny said on the Howard Stern Show in May 2024.

But they only began to spark romance rumors in late 2023. That December, Selena confirmed the speculation, commenting on a fan page's Instagram post, regarding Benny, "He is my absolute everything in my heart."

She continued, "Why has he been the best thing that's ever happened to me. He's still better than anyone I've ever been with."

The Rare Beauty founder also shared a photo on her Instagram Story of her leaning her head on what looked to be Benny's chest.

With This Ring...

Selena later shared this pic on her Instagram Stories, which shows her wearing a bejeweled "B" ring.

That Kiss

...including a pic of the two kissing. 

Quality Time

Also in December 2023, Selena shared several photos of herself hanging out in New York City with Benny and their friends.i

Appreciating Art

Two days after Christmas 2023, Selena shared new pics of the couple at what appeared to be an art exhibit.

PDA Alert

Selena posted this pic of herself and Benny one day before New Year's Eve 2023.

Slam Dunk Date Night

The pair attended the Los Angeles Lakers' home game against the Miami Heat in January 2024.

Can't Keep Their Hands to Themselves

The couple packed on PDA in this February 2024 snapshot.

Happy Birthday Benny

Selena shared a tribute to her boyfriend on his 36th birthday in March 2024.

Birthday Tribute

"Happy birthday baby!" Selena wrote on her Instagram. "Your emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent (that blows me away), undeniable humor and loving, kind heart absolutely kill me. I love you @itsbennyblanco."

PDA Alert

Selena included this kissing pic in her birthday tribute to Benny.

Naughty PDA Alert

...and these couple's pics as well.

Open Book

Selena celebrated the release of Benny's Open Wide in April 2024, captioning photos of the pair enjoying a cake shaped like his cookbook, "So proud."

Happy Fourth of July

Selena shared this pic of the two on Independence Day 2024.

Who Said "I Love You" First?

In July 2024, just ahead of their first dating anniversary, the two answered a viral "Who's Most Likely To" TikTok challenge, during which they were asked who was the first to say "I love you" to the other person. The answer? Selena.

Getting Cozy

Selena and Benny cuddled up in cute photos in July 2024 following her 32nd birthday.

Night Adventures

The actress captioned a gallery of summer photos, "Thank you for sharing your life with me today and everyday."

Beach Babes

The musicians soaked up the sun together on lounge chairs.

Dinner Date

Selena shared a silly pic of the two enjoying a bite.

Summer of Love

They're just loving each other like a love song, baby.

Incognito

The two were bundled up with masks on during one of their outings.

Pucker Up!

In another snap, Selena wore Benny's beanie as they pursed their lips for the camera.

Not Single Soon

The "Eastside" artist gave Selena a kiss on the cheek in a sweet summer snap in July 2024.

Good for You

He wrapped his arms around her in another adorable Instagram pic.

She Said Yes!

"Forever begins now," Selena wrote in December 2024, while revealing their engagement. Benny quipped in the comments, "hey wait… that’s my wife."

Golden Couple

The couple enjoyed a date night at the 2025 Golden Globes.

Red Carpet Debut

Benny and Selena made their first joint red carpet appearance at the 2025 Emmys.

Tying the Knot

The pair got married in Santa Barbara, Calif., on Sept. 27, 2025, with guests including Taylor SwiftMartin Short, Steve Martin and Paul Rudd.

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